Please note: This is NOT a pro-pedophile site.  Adults having sexual relations with children is dead wrong.  It is very wrong for a number of reasons: 1) It distorts the child's view of sex and what it's about.  2) It deprives children the enjoyment of having their first sexual encounters with members of their own generation as they mature.  3) It may fill the child with feelings of guilt.  4) It is also grossly unhealthy even for the adult because it hampers developing normal relations with other adults.  It is a lose-lose situation for all concerned, and nothing contained in this site is meant to condone overt sexual conduct of adults with children.      

However, the sorry reality is that things have gone way too far under the pretext of helping children, and America has become a raging pedophileophobic insane asylum, resulting in the ruination of adults lives on a daily bases by false or exaggerated allegations of child sexual molestation, oversensitivity as to what constitutes molestation, and exaggerated claims of harm. 

The current overly hostile climate toward sex crimes has been mainly due to a hand-full of high profile cases where the child victim was murdered -- not because of an increase in inappropriate adult-child sexual interaction itself.   The anger and hatred generated by those few crimes are being vented upon any and all who have the misfortune of being convicted of any sex related crime, regardless of how minor it may have been.  For example, men is some areas of the country are now having to register as sex offenders for simply being caught urinating outdoors! 

Ironically, the root cause of all this, death at the hands of a pedophile, is one of the most rare causes of death of children -- less than being killed by lightening.  Though it may be of little consolation to parents of children murdered by sex offenders, the fact is that fewer than a dozen children a year die at the hands of such deranged people.  To put things in perspective, about 30 or so children are killed by lightening every year in the U.S.  Furthermore, over 1,000 children die at the hands of their own parents, over 2,000 children lose their lives due to drunk drivers, and over 3,000 lose their lives due to firearms.  Yet, we do not see drunk drivers having to endure life-long registration or being beaten to death in prisons; nor do we see owners of firearms having such ownership disseminated to neighbors, so children can be warned to not go in or near such households

Unfortunately, no one ever holds the child or adolescent accountable, even though it may very well have been the so called victim that purposefully initiated and encouraged the incident  We are, in fact, often now just teaching those under the age of 18 an easy way to rip-off the system -- profit for lies at the expense of grown adults who lose everything. 

It is now common that even misdemeanor sex offenders are required to register as sex offenders for life.  It was ruled in 1983 by the California Supreme Court (Reed  33 Cal.3d 914) that sex registration for misdemeanor offences was unconstitutional, but now we see misdemeanor sex offenders having to register in California and in every other state as well.  A life-long stigma being attached to a misdemeanor is arguably absurd.  Sex offender registration can devastate the lives of those having to register, causing needless suffering to the great majority of sex offenders who are of no or little threat.  The absurdity of life-long registration boggles the mind.  Are we to have ninety-year-old men hobbling into police stations for something they did when they were in their twenties?  

Again nothing presented on this site is meant to defend sex with children in any way; it is meant to elucidate the facts, see the reality of the situation, address what is helpful and what is not, and lastly to help counter this modern day witch hunt and gross hysteria that has engulfed the United States and which is slowly creeping outward throughout much of the rest of the world.  Interested visitors are encouraged to share their feeling by taking advantage of the forum.