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Symptoms of Pedophileophobia
Make no mistake "Pedophileophobia"
is a real illness and very harmful to society. Below is
a list of its symptoms.
1) Presenting an overly emotionally charged doting
attitude towards children: "They are the most important
things in our lives. We must protect their innocence. They are
our sweet angels." Of course, children are quite
important, but these kind of attitudes and expressions are not normally
used by well balanced, healthy-minded
adults who do not have obsessions about children.
2) Overly hateful remarks: "Molesters are the
lowest scum of the earth." [real quote] "Sex offenders
have no rights not in my book! Any body that does a crime
against a child should rot and die in prison!!!!" [real quote]. Real molesters, that
is, adults who involve themselves in overtly sexual ways
with children are committing grievous crimes. They
deny the children they molest natural sexual experiences with their peers as
they grow older and distort their views of what sex is all
about. But, even given that, it is very rare that we would
call anyone "scum," or other such derogatory expressions, except
for the most reprehensible offenses such as mass murder,
genocide, etc. Some would feel that no human being should
ever be described by such terms. Such expressions are
obvious indications of fanaticism.
3) Self-empowerment phrases: "My patience runs
out when I read about ... " "I'll come after them myself
...." They give subjective rather than objective remarks.
Such people have feelings of inferiority and are in it for
themselves. It makes them feel superior to pretend that good
and bad all comes down to their "own," but actually adopted
politically correct, opinion; and they view themselves as the
knight in shining armor that will avenge and protect our
children.
4) Over generalizing: "We are talking about child
molestation here you know." That's as silly as saying we
are talking about stealing here you know, lumping shoplifting
right together with bank robbery. Not being able to
distinguish between levels of criminal behavior displays a lack
of thought and actually a lack of intelligence. Their attitude
and language demonstrates the feeling that all sex offenders are the same. These people always ignore or avoid
talking about the particulars of any crime. Sex offenders of
children are all just "molesters" -- misdemeanor or felony,
consensual or non-consensual, true love or just sexual lust is
all the same to the pedophileophobe.
5) Exaggerated claims of harm: They portray that any
act at all that can be considered the least bit sexual between an adult and a child is just de
facto traumatizing to a child, as if age alone can somehow turn
an otherwise harmless act into a very serious act. Such
exaggerations often utilize the continual use of loaded terms such as
"hurt": "I don't see how a person can hurt
a child like that," and referring to any adult sexual contact
with a child as "sexual abuse," rather than
more honest language like "inappropriate sexual behavior."
The worst is "survivor of sexual abuse" giving the
false and obviously rather ridiculous impression that many, if
not most, children die as a result of sexual contact with an
adult. Though everyone knows that is not true, including
the people who use the expression, the word "survivor"
itself serves their purpose to brainwash and unjustly magnify
the harm of inappropriate sexual conduct between an adult with a
child.
6) An unrealistic fear that their own child will be molested,
or worse kidnapped and murdered: Death at the
hands of a pedophile is almost certainly the rarest cause of
death among children. As far as molestation is concerned,
virtually all children get molested to some extent by someone
somewhere: a brother, sister, cousin, doctor, teacher, uncle or
aunt and or even a parent will inevitably do something that
could be called molestation. Everyone gets molested at least a
little even if done under the guise of play. An older sister
might pull her brother's pants down, or a doctor might exam a
little too thoroughly, a parent will needlessly have their
children run around naked, sometimes in front of strangers.
While true molestation can be quite harmful,
everyone gets molested a little and the vast majority grow up to be
completely normal.
7) Always holding the child blameless:
They feel that children would never lie, never have an ulterior
motive for lying, and could never actually be the true sex predators themselves.
It has been admitted by teens themselves that they have focused
on adults and tired to seduce them, yet pedophilophobes just
don't care -- it's just always the adults' fault. It was
documented that a particular a teen
boy admitted he made it his goal to seducing his young
attractive female teacher, however nobody cared about that and
she went to
prison and absolutely nothing happened to him, except that now
his own guilt for causing such harm to his teacher will haunt
him for the rest of his life, but not due to his own actions
actually, but due to the irrational pedophilophobes who put her
in prison. Many times children,
even young children, do provoke and initiate the
incident, often forcefully and with great persistence.
Some schools are now admitting this is true and are now keeping
records of students' sexual behavior toward adults and giving
the children counseling.
8) Referring to teenagers as children: A person stops being
a child at the age of 11 and becomes an adolescent at the age
of 12, yet most laws and people inexplicably
refer to anyone under the age of 18 as being a child when
speaking in reference to sex crimes. This is done to make
the teen appear to be more helpless and victimized than what is
actually true.
9) Refusal to admit that teens and even some children can be found
to be sexually attractive to any number of perfectly normal adults:
While it may be antisocial, and wrong to have actual sexual involvement
with those under the age of 18, it is certainly not abnormal in
many instances to
at times find those under the age of 18 sexually attractive. Portraying such attractions as pedophilia is not
only medical wrong, but just not realistic. Most young men
in their twenties or even thirties would find that "that" cute cheerleader at the local high school
quite desirable,
but pedophileophobes pretend such thoughts don't exist in normal
adults and
delude themselves saying such desires constitute a mental or criminal illness. In
fact, such hysterical pedophileophobes world erroneously
interpret these very comments to mean this site supports adults
having sex with cheerleaders or something just as crazy, when
nothing of the such is being implied at all.
10) Having no feelings, remorse, or concern that hundreds of
thousands of Americas, and now others around the world, are methodically having their lives
ruined: The pedophileophobe doesn't care how many
adults are hurt in order to get to the few who do commit
serious crimes; they actually rationalize that all adults who
have been convicted of a sex crime are just all the same anyway,
so who cares about the details? Such people are hysterical and don't
concern themselves with the reality that many adults who have
done relatively little or even nothing, are
methodically having their lives ruined by Megan's Law and other
sex laws that advertise their crimes and don't allow them to live and work where they want,
even after serving their sentences or even after legal
expungement of their crimes. Only in Communist countries
and in Nazi Germany have people ever been denied to choose where
they wish to live! Such laws have absolutely been unheard
of in civilized constitutional countries until recently.
11) Having no foresight or concern for the long term
consequences of their fanaticism: Ironically, people who are afflicted with pedophileophobia
are completely oblivious to the fact that their own
children, whom they are trying so desperately to protect, will
soon grow up and be subject to these same insidious laws.
They'll be whistling a different tune when little Johnny gets
thrown into prison just for having cyber-sex with an underage
girl or having consensual sex with his underage girlfriend and
gets his life ruined till the day he dies.
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